How much is too much?
Several studies show growing concern that after school programs are pressuring kids to do too much too soon.
Here is a simple guide that will help you decide how much is too much for your child.
Kindergarten:
One or two classes per week are enough at the beginning.
Grade 1:
Avoid competitive sports activities. The child is still too young to have to worry about winning and losing.
Grade 2:
Your child is old enough to voice opinions on what activities he or she wants. Sports, skating, swimming or computers – steer them towards things they like.
Grade 3:
Team sports are a good choice. Developing motor skills, painting, drawing, etc
Grade 4:
At this age, the child will tell you what they like. Get them involved in activities that will boost confidence. This will also help them manage stress.
Grade 5:
Now is a great time to get your child interested in community service.
Middle school:
As a thumb rule, 16-20 hours a week of extra activity should be more than enough.
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